David

In loving memory of David Allen Burns
September 12, 1963 – January 31, 2026

By Lisa Markey
April 2026

David Allen Burns was born on September 12, 1963, in San Francisco, California, and grew up in San Rafael.

David shared a close bond with his mother, Betty. For much of his life, it was the two of them against the world. At a time when autism was not well understood, they faced many challenges in finding the support, understanding, and respect David deserved. Over time, People with Disabilities Succeeding and Lifehouse became important parts of his life, helping him build a routine filled with purpose, structure, and community.

David carried himself as a true gentleman. You would often see him helping others—holding doors open, walking friends safely across the street, bringing napkins, and clearing tables. He took great pride in his schedule and loved sharing his plans for the week, especially when it meant seeing his mom again.

David found comfort in routine and quiet moments. He enjoyed drawing and listening to vinyl records, appreciating the calm and consistency of his daily life.

He was also active and loved participating in Special Olympics, playing sports like baseball, table tennis, and basketball. Most of all, he loved the water. Swimming brought him a sense of joy and freedom that was unmistakable.

Work was something David valued deeply. Over the years, he worked at places like Round Table Pizza, Taco Bell, and Northgate Mall. Through People with Disabilities Succeeding, he spent time at Borders Books before later working at Diego Trucking, where he remained proudly employed. He also contributed to Parks and Recreation programs in San Anselmo, Mill Valley, and Novato, helping with community cleanup and litter abatement.

David enjoyed spending time with friends and had a few favorite treats he always looked forward to—hot chocolate “with lots of whipped cream” and popcorn “with plenty of butter.” He loved burgers and fries and enjoyed searching thrift stores for classic vinyl records.

Drawing was another way David expressed himself. He filled pages with sketches of his day—places he went, people he saw, and moments that stood out.

Being around others brought him to life. You could often find him in the middle of the room, showing off his dance moves and fully enjoying the moment. His double thumbs-up was his way of letting everyone know he was having a great day.

Though he could be quiet at times, his warmth was always felt through his hugs and the gentle way he spoke. He carried a kindness that left a lasting impression on everyone he met.

David will be deeply missed by everyone who knew him. Those who loved him know he lived a full life, surrounded by community, love, and friendship.